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  Deva Whispers * Elaina Deva Proffitt * 

Author Spiritual Grief & Loss Counselor * Speaker Teacher AfterLife Communicator

Grief and Loss Counselor  Speaker Writer

Afterlife Communicator 

(lilac art by Sabrina Wheeler)

A Grief & Loss Counselor Writer and Speaker working with those in transition and comforting the grieving. I have found there are many ways of grieving personally and when working with other for 30 years. There is no set time for grieving to end we carry the loss through life but can come to a better place with patience, new understanding the meaning of life an death. The knowing that our loved ones are safe with angels.  



 Saying Goodbye                    

 We all grieve differently  there is no set time or way to do this.    

When a loved one dies we do not stop feeling the powerful impact That they have had upon our Life. The history that you created together is still there and will remain all through our life. 

It takes time to heal grieving is a process that each person experiences in an unique way While in these moments of pain it is hard to embrace that death is an ending with a new beginning. 

Just trust there will come a time to reunite once more. Until that moment arrives we must live this life fully without guilt as our loved ones want us to do  and our reunion  will arrive in the "Twinkling of an Eye"  it is just a change of worlds...

 Elaina Deva Proffitt  3/2007

There is no death...Only a change of worlds

-Chief Seattle

Just a few of the precious souls I was blessed to help

Too many throughout the years to post..but in my heart


"When I lost my husband in 2007 she was with both of us during his last days.Kelly was skeptic about her abilities  but in the end, when he came home under Hospice Care she is the person he asked for to help him "Cross Over." Thanks to her he had a quiet and peaceful passing.She is sought after nationwide for her expertise.She is not only an outstanding spiritual counselor but is a caring and compassionate person and our professional relationship has turned into a personal friendship that I cherish."

Chris Lott Reno NV   


Kendall & Thelma Vaughn 

"Thank you so much for being there for all of us at Dad's passing. The ritual ceremony you performed to encourage his spirit to cross over was very magical and surreal. I'll never forget the sensation of Dad's spirit so strong around us and the instantaneous temperature drop in the chamber at the moment we knew he had crossed over. It felt like a fresh breeze blowing indicating an ending and a new beginning for all of us. 

We will always treasure that moment and thank you for making Dad's final send off a priceless memory. 

Much love to you! 

Kendalls kids."